Love

.....i feel like writing about love, so i shall.
Love, is a hard think to figure out, and i wont be able to talk about it all, but I'll start with love between two people. Sometimes it is hard to find someone to love you the same way you love them, and it's a gurney we all have to go through. I think the hardest part for me would be, people who like me. Some people generally believe there in love with the person there dating. But this may not always be the case.I will give you a hint, if this person you believe you love is your first long term relationship then chances are you do not love them. This would be called lust, and sometimes you don't love the person, but love the idea of being with them. Yes, it is hard to distinguish between the two at times, but once your in love you will know. Once you care about this person so much that you would do anything it takes to make them happy, including letting them be with somebody else no matter how much it hurts you, and once you know you want to spend the rest of your life with this person no matter what they look like, or if they become sick, this is when you love someone.
In saying this i would also like to add that many people use the word love to lightly. People use the word without thinking about its meaning before using it. I am not one of those people. i cannot say the word love unless i am completely sure i love the person. Now when i say this I'm not counting the times i may have said it while being drunk. When I'm drunk i love everybody so that doesn't count. But if you are my friend or family member and, i say i love you, i do mean it. Just in a different way. To my friends i do love, and care about enough that i wouldn't want anything to happen to them. Thus, i love them as friend.